I am writing this blog, may be because I am angry, may be because I am trying to be funny, may be because I 
have felt to write this for a long time… So what?? It’s a blog, I can write anything. When I am starting this blog, I am not even sure how this is going to end… I am writing it in a flow… let the ending show us some light on knowledge… Let me start with woman's suffering against decent, learned men… When the auto walas pump money out of my purse and said, 'You IT people, earn more na.. Give money… What is wrong?' I fought them back, Oh No! I shut up later… 'I am a girl'. When I tried to drive normally in the roads of Velachery, and some guys, decent, learned guys, over take me and never leave way for me to go, even at 30 kmph, I wanted to show them what I shouldn't, Oh yea, I am a girl… So I control myself to burst out few bad words, Oh No! I am a girl… I go in a Share auto, somebody is sitting next to me, they always want to take their handkerchief out, pull their cuffs, take their purse out… shitty nonsense, I shut up, Oh yea, I am a girl… I go in a bus, someone stares at me, they don’t take their eyes off even if I stare back, I ask few questions for which I get no support from other people around, Oh shut up, that's his eyes, u r a girl anyway… I go to the last seat, ask someone to getup and give me a seat, its mentioned ladies, one fellow wakes up and gives me space where I should land half of my legs on his lap, a lady turns out, oh, u want the whole seat for yourself? Am I not a girl, u r a girl too, so sit on his lap… I know many women have suffered a lot more than what I have. Oh! Why the hell is gender a major problem?? I am always becoming sceptical about the thought about some men being born with talents they are not worthy and they feel it's like Karuna's kavasa, heh! That was a myth… Sometimes I stare at the ceiling of my home and argue why Eve should have never tasted that apple. Are we all the mistakes born out of Eve's stupidity? If Eve was stupid enough I am convinced that most men, like Adam, follow stupidity with closed eyes. Now, Now! I am not a misandrist, I don't hate the community of men… So I go forth now, giving supportive thoughts for men… Girls are given this beautiful opportunity to go onsite… abroad… to a foreign dreamland… they are back now, may be they came back when they were actually getting used to abroad… but once they are back 'Hey! Chennai is becoming hot nowadays illa…, its so chipky chipky'… and yea and this too 'hey! You cook with refined oil? When I was in US, I used to cook in Olive Oil… that is actually good for health, you know…' please be noted… that girls always started a sentence with 'When I was in US' and end with 'You know'…. And we should actually know how to laugh without showing it out on our faces… and there goes this… I used to think why there used to be girls at big institutions where people could get selected merely because of their knowledge in subjects… they want to do all sorts of research on history, chemistry and physics when they are actually working in IT sector, but they want to do it just because they are nerds… Shouldn't we have the little common sense of not boring others? And again, shopping… 'Can u tell me one good shop in Chennai that sells good clothes that would fit?' Either her shape is abnormal or every shop is selling rags… I leave the choice to the readers… and when those dream come true day comes, the day their marriage is fixed, I have never known that love can actually bloom for few in about a day that the talking over phone starts over at night and I hear only titters, I wonder if the other end is already snoring. I should say that I have loved to observe few people in the community who bring some colors to our living. Without these people, our lives are never filled. Shouldn't we always have something to chew around in our break times and these people make great topics. I am not even sure where this topic has taken me to… I feel I have ended it abruptly… But even if I do continue this is going to be never ending. I feel everyone in life have experience people who they could never tolerate and never forget. I have had many experiences so far and I am building a story on that…. To be released soon… J So guys, whoever is the intolerable girl you are living with/ have lived with/ looking at, see the funny part of them and you will certainly enjoy it… and girls, who have suffered like/ more than me, take the strength, blow a punch and walk-on… people around you will keep talking… Ignore them and show them you are not the girl to shut-up… Glad I have put in some nice thoughts at last and all ends well!
have felt to write this for a long time… So what?? It’s a blog, I can write anything. When I am starting this blog, I am not even sure how this is going to end… I am writing it in a flow… let the ending show us some light on knowledge… Let me start with woman's suffering against decent, learned men… When the auto walas pump money out of my purse and said, 'You IT people, earn more na.. Give money… What is wrong?' I fought them back, Oh No! I shut up later… 'I am a girl'. When I tried to drive normally in the roads of Velachery, and some guys, decent, learned guys, over take me and never leave way for me to go, even at 30 kmph, I wanted to show them what I shouldn't, Oh yea, I am a girl… So I control myself to burst out few bad words, Oh No! I am a girl… I go in a Share auto, somebody is sitting next to me, they always want to take their handkerchief out, pull their cuffs, take their purse out… shitty nonsense, I shut up, Oh yea, I am a girl… I go in a bus, someone stares at me, they don’t take their eyes off even if I stare back, I ask few questions for which I get no support from other people around, Oh shut up, that's his eyes, u r a girl anyway… I go to the last seat, ask someone to getup and give me a seat, its mentioned ladies, one fellow wakes up and gives me space where I should land half of my legs on his lap, a lady turns out, oh, u want the whole seat for yourself? Am I not a girl, u r a girl too, so sit on his lap… I know many women have suffered a lot more than what I have. Oh! Why the hell is gender a major problem?? I am always becoming sceptical about the thought about some men being born with talents they are not worthy and they feel it's like Karuna's kavasa, heh! That was a myth… Sometimes I stare at the ceiling of my home and argue why Eve should have never tasted that apple. Are we all the mistakes born out of Eve's stupidity? If Eve was stupid enough I am convinced that most men, like Adam, follow stupidity with closed eyes. Now, Now! I am not a misandrist, I don't hate the community of men… So I go forth now, giving supportive thoughts for men… Girls are given this beautiful opportunity to go onsite… abroad… to a foreign dreamland… they are back now, may be they came back when they were actually getting used to abroad… but once they are back 'Hey! Chennai is becoming hot nowadays illa…, its so chipky chipky'… and yea and this too 'hey! You cook with refined oil? When I was in US, I used to cook in Olive Oil… that is actually good for health, you know…' please be noted… that girls always started a sentence with 'When I was in US' and end with 'You know'…. And we should actually know how to laugh without showing it out on our faces… and there goes this… I used to think why there used to be girls at big institutions where people could get selected merely because of their knowledge in subjects… they want to do all sorts of research on history, chemistry and physics when they are actually working in IT sector, but they want to do it just because they are nerds… Shouldn't we have the little common sense of not boring others? And again, shopping… 'Can u tell me one good shop in Chennai that sells good clothes that would fit?' Either her shape is abnormal or every shop is selling rags… I leave the choice to the readers… and when those dream come true day comes, the day their marriage is fixed, I have never known that love can actually bloom for few in about a day that the talking over phone starts over at night and I hear only titters, I wonder if the other end is already snoring. I should say that I have loved to observe few people in the community who bring some colors to our living. Without these people, our lives are never filled. Shouldn't we always have something to chew around in our break times and these people make great topics. I am not even sure where this topic has taken me to… I feel I have ended it abruptly… But even if I do continue this is going to be never ending. I feel everyone in life have experience people who they could never tolerate and never forget. I have had many experiences so far and I am building a story on that…. To be released soon… J So guys, whoever is the intolerable girl you are living with/ have lived with/ looking at, see the funny part of them and you will certainly enjoy it… and girls, who have suffered like/ more than me, take the strength, blow a punch and walk-on… people around you will keep talking… Ignore them and show them you are not the girl to shut-up… Glad I have put in some nice thoughts at last and all ends well!
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ReplyDeleteI like to share my thoughts about your first part of the article, Yes, i can feel ur angry as a fellow passenger. Do you think if they just bust out or if we just ignore will resolve this issue.
Our Culture, education, environment and our dressing, etc... Builds our society, it will take time to change. Very sorry to say this (don't think i am supporting men). do u think girl's wearing their dress properly, how many girls wearing thupata properly, is thupata to cover their neck. Why don't they pin properly. So, we can start the change from our side. Yes, I strongly agree girls travelling in bus facing too much struggles bcs of these guys, worst case we can avoid much crowded bus, but that’s not possible in Chennai life.
Men or Women working in leading IT Industry, wearing their Company tag outside their premises, definitely people like auto or taxi people think, we are very wealth and generally they think working in luxury environment without any worries, why don't they pay more. We can limit out identity, I know practically its very difficult but we can try. My offshore girls, sometimes they simple pay around 200 to 250 from IT-Highway to Adyar or Besant Nagar even they can travel by Office bus, some time i think we the people who raise the auto or cab rates, then the next time their expectation will be more and excepting more money from us.
One day evening in Madhya Kailash bus stand the person next to me split very near the bus stand, where people used to stand, I usually don’t like people splitting in streets, seeing that, i got frustrated and with my shoe cover that with the sand nearby, seeing that he feels very bad for his behavior, told me he will ever do this again. This is my experience.
In latest statics, Indian rural higher secondary girls dropped out of school just bcs they don’t have proper rest rooms and transport. So, atleast if we contribute education for our younger generation may be our future generation may leave a better life, atleast they leave seat for old age or give respect for Gender.
Being I am in Texas, I can just share my thoughts or I can comment anything but ground reality is very tough. Ohhhh…. My god..…. Its 3 AM…. ( hey when is ur new blog "J" )
Happy Blogging…. C u guys …..
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